Timmi had leg cramps today tt sent him sprawling and crawling on the floor like an intoxicated old man.

Scare the daylight out of me.

Thank god he was ok aft that n he continued his half finished biscuit b4 he went into cramp mode.

Ben just went like "HUH?!"

Haha. Can't be helped. Your son is just THAT greedy.

Went back Bishan today to get my makeup kit. Can't believe PA's anniversary parade is in 16 hours tym n i hav no makeup with me. Luckily i remembered that fact halfway during Ed Psych whn i was just stoning n not listening.

Tmr project meeting. I will not attempt to try keeping my blood away from boiling point.

Because i always failed at my past few attempts.

He is just too irritating.

Im officially 23. =)

Not that i've actually counted, but there is a significant increase in the number of ppl wishing me happy birthday compared to the year b4!

Which means people cared to remember, or they dun remember yet they cared enuf to write on my wall =))

Which means im really blessed with more people in my life =)

Today Ben and I got the same 2 books for myself from MPH. I walked pass Citylink on my way to rehearsal so i thought might as well get the 2 books tt i've been wanting to get since it's on the way. And then when Ben came to pick mi up from the flyer, he went to MPH n got the same 2 books for me too!! Ahaha. I hope he will enjoy the books since he insisted not to let me claim the $ back for him.

And i got my first red bomb right at the very last hour of my first day of being 23.

My lil boy's potty training will hv a long long way to go.

But Joyce, think of the pay-off for persistence. =)

My bday celebration on Friday was really great! We had fun drinking, and they got me a really oriental makeup kit =D It was really farni hw they laughed at me and that staff at Yello Jello who tried to get my number thru his colleague. Nevertheless it felt good becoz it shows tt im not v old for that sort of thing. And it really was a pleasant surprise to receive a note with someone telling u that u look cute in ur braces. Richard lookalike or not. Haha.

But of coz the sweetest man, as sweet as ever, got me a book by Scott Kelby! He put in so much effort in his wrapping that i refuse to rip the present open. Not that i rip open my presents anyways. Yet u knw when old cliches like "it's the thought that counts" are still being widely circulated for generations, they are sure to possess value of some sort.

Thank you my dearies. Feels really blessed to hv you accepting me for who i am, and willing to make time n effort for me in many ways. I've learnt that such things are hard to come by, and therefore i will treasure every bit i have. Coming weekends my cousins will be celebrating for me too. God has been watching over me all these while, giving me the strength to heal my wound, while showing me how much i can actually do, and putting me around people who truly love and care for me.

And my only wish for my birthday, is for these people i care to be healthy and happy.

To be greedy i want just one more, that is for me to be able to heal wounded hearts.

When i hear her crying over the phone yesterday, all i wanted to do, is to go and give her a big hug to tell her that everything will be alright. God blessed her thru hard times, and gave her a happy family with two very adorable grandsons, i pray that he would help her feel the peace and happiness that has always been around her. I really wanted to care for her more than just that, yet i know it is impossible for me to do so anymore.

Being happy really isn't an easy thing to do.

I have to keep telling myself that the pain will go away.

Potty training fail.

*cries*

Don't complain when ur kid shit in his pampers. At least there is pampers.

That aside, i shall try harder. My lil Timmi is smart. He will get it soon enuf. =)

U knw ur son is growing when both his poo pile and his pee puddle gets bigger.

Because i just watched Timmi grow again. =)

I hope the air at F1 pit isn't that humid later.

Sharing my friend's MSN nick:

"There are times that we may not agree with each other, but it is you who decide how you will let it affect your life."

Tata! =)

Im tired. Woke up early for church and went to nua at my fav spot at Gloria Jeans aft that, with this month's Reader's Digest. The camomile tea is great as usual n the Lamington cake is quite nice! =)

Had my last session of Intermediate 1 for salsa and hv decided to take a short hiatus and focus on Chingay n school work before going for Intermediate 1.5 class. Tuesday we're gg to Union Square to tryout our newfound skill. Whee~!

After class i went to meet Juri who wanted to pass me some clothes n bags. Aft tt they treated me to this v nice Western food at Lorong 7. It's really pleasant to see the two of them having such great couple dynamics and they remind me of Ben n myself. Happy to be part of a happy picture =)

Poor lil Timmi was hungry all day in Boon Lay and the 1st thing i did whn i reached was to pour him alot of food. He was circling around me when i was pouring the pellet. My poor lil boy. I spent more than an hr cleaning Timmi's cage after that, changing bedding and all. By the tym i was done i was sweating abit.

But it's all worth it. Seeing my baby happily chomping on his hay with clean bedding n fresh water =)

Ben is so sweet today, even though we did not meet each other at all coz he has to finish his FYP report. I feel v. thankful for all that i have now. =)

Finally 1st week of school has ended!

And i see a lot of work coming my way. Shall chop chop try to finish them so i can enjoy my CNY cum Valentines Day.

We finally got our Chingay costumes and according to Ben it looks ridiculously long and heavy. Haha. When i finally get beautiful n grand costume, i realise it is not dance frenly at all. Zzz. But thankfully we hv no mask lyk last year. Masks are stinky.

Poor Ben waited for me for close to an hour till nearing eleven plus and he was so understanding abt it. Still brought me to eat carrot cake for supper after that. Feels really blessed to be loved. =)

Rehearsal at F1 pit later in the evening. Before tt i gotta go get a hair brush and feed my fat lil Timmi. Tts a paradox. =) Ben says hair brush is better for my long hair so i shall giv it a shot!

I get the feeling that Timmi wee-weeED in the food bowl again. =S

Timmi's getting fat. Haha. Time to make him exercise!

And im sure he loves it coz he get to run around my room n hide under my table n bed. =)

Watching lil Timmi darting abt in my room is really an enjoyable experience.

He looks really happy and free!

I just hope he doesn't wee wee on the floor. I'd rather he shit. It's way easier to clean. Bunny poo is just a tiny round ball that doesn't disintegrate when u pick it up. Haha.

I shall get back to my readings while he continue to hop about freely. =)

Im blogging this from my darling's hall room now and i gotta run to the pool now to watch his polo match against Hall 7 today.

He will own the pool again, im sure. =)

Im sooo tired. My cousins and I had a bbq. And we didn't slp all the way till Sunday. Im like totally chui when i reach home n KOed till 2pm.

Ben stunned all my uncles n aunties n cousins by standing at 1.87m tall.

See darling! U stood out amongst the rest! =p

Im now in Boon Lay with Timmi! Timmi's got a new cage, went for grooming, and he is now able to hop! Alvin n mummy love him too!

Proud of my baby. And really appreciative of Ben's love and support. =)

Ben makes me realise tt there is a thin line between a male chauvinist and a male chauvinist pig.

The clear difference, is that the former treats his lady with respect, the latter doesn't.

Happy 1st month my dear. You wouldn't know how appreciative i am for what you've done for me so far. It may mean nothing to you, and it may seem like it's only normal and natural for you to be doing what you did. But it has really been a long while since i last felt that i was allowed to grow, and to be myself without getting scolded. And it has been awhile since i felt that my feelings were sincerely being handled with care, that i dun always have to be in the position of trying to please you just to have you paying attention to me for one more minute.

Thank you for making me feel that i am something and not nothing. =)

看到同学在FB上PO了梁继玮写给他儿子的一封信，我也疯狂地PO上FB和部落格同大家分享。花了一些时间转化成简体，更容易读吧？


我儿:

写这备忘录給你，基于三個原則：
(一）人生福祸无常，谁也不知可以活多久，有些事情还是早一点说好。
(二）我是你的父亲，我不跟你说，沒有人会跟你说。
(三）這备忘录里记载的，都是我经过慘痛失敗得回來的体验，可以為你的成長省回不少冤枉路。



以下，便是你在人生中要好好记住的事：

（一） 对你不好的人，你不要太介怀，在你一生中，沒有人有义务要对你好，除了我和你妈妈。至于那些对你好的人，你除了要珍惜、感恩外，也请多防备一點，因为，每個人做每件事，总有一个原因，他对你好，未必真的是因为喜欢你，请你必须搞清楚，而不必太快將对方看作真朋友。

（二） 沒有人是不可代替，沒有東西是必须拥有。看透了这一点，将来你身边的人不再要你，或许失去了世间上最爱的一切时，也应该明白，这并不是什么大不了的事。

（三） 生命是短暂的，今日你还在浪費着生命，明日会发觉生命已远离你了。因此，愈早珍惜生命，你享受生命的日子也愈多，与其盼望长寿，倒不如早点享受。

（四） 世界上并沒有最爱這回事，爱情只是一種霎時的感觉，而这感觉绝对会随時日、心境而改变。如果你的所谓最爱离开你，请耐心地等候一下，让時日慢慢沖洗，让心灵慢慢沉淀，你的苦就會慢慢淡化。不要过分憧憬爱情的美，不要过分夸大失恋的悲。

（五） 虽然，很多有成就的人士都没有受过很多教育，但并不等如不用功读书，就一定可以成功。你学到的知识，就是你拥有的武器。人，可以白手兴家，但不可以手无寸铁，紧记！

（六） 我不会要求你供养我下半辈子，同样地我也不会供养你的下半辈子，当你长大到可以独立的時候，我的责任已经完結。以后，你要坐巴士还是Benz，吃魚翅还是粉丝，都要自己负责。

（七） 你可以要求自己守信，但不能要求別人守信，你可以要求自己对人好，但不能期待人家对你好。你怎样对人，并不代表人家就会怎样对你，如果看不透這一点，你只會徒添不必要的烦恼。

（八） 我买了十多二十年六合彩，还是一穷二白，连三奖也沒有中，这证明人要发达，还是要努力工作才可以，世界上并沒有免費午餐。

（九） 亲人只有一次的缘份，无论这辈子我和你会相处多久，也请好好珍惜共聚的時光，下辈子，无论爱与不爱，都不会再见。

你的爸爸
梁继玮

Just came home from saving fishes. Amzing how 2 computer engineers managed to reverse engineer the spoilt filter and saved the fishes while saving money.

I do hope though, when Lua's momo wake up tomorrow she will be satisfied. She has indeed high standards for aesthetics and practicality. Hence we took 5 hrs frm 10pm to 3am instead of maybe 12am? Haha.

But it sure beats staying at home and staring at photos. I've been reducing noise n editing for contrast n colours all day. Damn tired.

Speaking of tacky parents, Dad saved me the trouble of broaching the subject of wat i generally categorise as "Confessions". He finally had enuf of me staying out and asked if i had a new boyfriend. Saves me the trouble of thinking how to go up to him and say,"Hey Dad, Adam was a jerk so we are not together anymore."

Besides it was a good chance for me to tell him,"I will be staying at Alvin's place again because next semester i have many early morning lessons, ok right?"

Nice Dad, still wan to sit dwn n talk to me abt it. If its other ppl i wouldn't mind sitting dwn talking abt them but when it comes to Adam Liew, let's just say i think father and daughter have much more constructive things to talk about.

Which means this Saturday i can bring Ben to my cousin's chalet because whole world will still be looking forward to see my boyfriend but most of them just do not know that there was a switch in the process. And those who knw will knw hw much i've been thru and hw lucky i am to have been rid of him.

Let's just say that i was blind luh. Like dig-my-eyeballs-out-of-their-sockets kind of blind.

Now my mum is gg to say i change clothes again and be angry with me for the next few days. But im pretty sure this time round she will say it is good to revamp my wardrobe.

So looking forward to Saturday!

I might be closing this blog. Im too lazy. Haha. Meanwhile check out my very first photoblog. Link is at the top right corner.

Yes, im back! It's been a trip tt has tested n proven that i have frenz everywhere. And it's been a memorable trip. I love my darling! =)

Had a filling Popeyes brunch! Chicky wasn't as nice tho! I had fun ganging up with Bryan to irritate B. Haha. Then we spent the day going to fish farms again n to Holland V to look at the pet shops there. B wanted to bring me to West Coast Park but thr was no parking space. Thrs always nxt tym! =)

After debating between Swift, Cerato Forte, Rio, Picanto, Jazz, Aveo, Lancer, and some random vans....

...B and i finally agreed to buy a Lancer.

Because his body is too long for the Jazz that i've been wanting to get.

Then he keep using 苦肉计 like "k lor, i sit on the rooftop, strap me there ok?" or "liddat i take public transport alr la".

Ok lor, u win. Haha.

So now its tym for license and some savings. I will get my first car at the age of 23. And that job everyone would die for at the age of 26. =)

Land of clouds in 6 hrs tym!

Was packing n MSN-ing at the same tym. And B asked if im done packing. So i said im lost in a pile of clothes and toiletries.

Awhile later he suddenly said sth like "my gawd how much i love my darling!" Which got me into the state of "?!!"

So apparently this silly man felt that having clothes piled on my bed is totally like a trait of mine and suddenly he was overwhelmed by the feeling of "hey that defines my darling!" and that prompted him to say wat he said.

Like how is that even something that can make u feel the sugar rush of loving someone that much? So cute yet so silly! Nevertheless, it's sweet to knw that he loves everything that makes me who i am. And its tyms like this i feel really blessed. =)

I miss my lil Timmi! Right now it's enjoying itself under Sihui's care. Glad to hear that it's eating 24/7. Haha. Tts my greedy darling!

Life has only just begun. =)

I've been missing!

Haha. Not for long. Had a memorable countdown at Han's condo rooftop, seeing fireworks from everywhere even in Malaysia, and took my camera out for the very first night shots. Thanks to Patrick now i knw never ever try using a point n shoot at ISO1600. Crazy shit. Photos are damn grainy now hv to resort to using noise filtering software to save them.

And thrs this part whr we had to lie down quietly to avoid getting caught by the security guard who was on his rounds. Damn exciting.

Not to mention that my period came too! Like first day of new year. Now damn easy to chart. Haha.

New Year's Day: Ben drove me to Farmart but it was raining and most shops were closed. We went back to Bishan n his Mum directed us to this place in Ang Mo Kio that has very nice fish steamboat! So i had an enjoyable dinner with his mum n the 3 brothers =) And his mum v cute, uttering all the auspicious greetings, macam chinese new yr steamboat dinner!

At night we went airport to send his cousin off. Flying on New Year! I aso wan =*(

Which reminds me, we will be going Genting in abt 24 hrs' tym. *Excited*

Right now im just gonna go slp and wake up for a Popeyes brunch with Ben n Bryan at AMK later!

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